When I take a close look at the position of Pluto in the birth chart of a person it is easy to determine what would stimulate an intense desire within them.
Obsessions are overt desires. One individual wants to possess the heart and soul of the other. This kind of pressure soon becomes unbearable for the person being possessed and the relationship often ends in violence or comes to a nasty conclusion.
If you feel this way about someone, it would be very wise to check out your relationship. It may be an unrealistic obsession that is not based on real love. Most of the time, these obsessions are really about lust.
When the planet, Pluto, in one person's chart is found in the same sign as another person's Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars, the Pluto person wants to possess that person. The other person is usually fascinated by the Pluto person's intense attention toward them. They mistakenly believe that this attention is because the other person really loves them.
This intense attention is not about love, but possession. The Pluto person wants to "own" the other person.
How do you know if you have an obsessive relationship or are about to enter one?
You will need to give your birth date and the other person's birth date to a skilled astrologer and he will be able to explain your relationship to you and help you make a decision about it.
Please do not get caught in Pluto's seductive trap. if you suspect that this kind of energy is brewing between you and another person, check out your relationship.